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Life Management! 
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 We write here some rules about live life .......
Relationship Family Society
Friend Now Relation in between Me and others
 If We want to run our relations good then be positive with others
(family+society+friends).
 And relationship means
Be positive everytime with your relations then surely life is good .
 Communication Skills No Blame No Excause
No Order Life is a game so just play it " but "
peacefully...
lovingly....
and purely....
when we play our part in the game like this then we feel very light...
 I know some may want a answer why a ''game''...
so let me answer that now...
 do u remember there was a game on life..
 but here in real life we have relations..
which should be taken care of with peace ,
love and purity in heart..
if we are successful, we are winnersin the this game...

success

However difficult life may seem, there is always something you can do and succeed at. 

 Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; 

working together is success. Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.

Self Respect

Self Respect
 Life is short Dont waste it being Angry or sad 
 Be Happy and Enjoy the time with your 
lOVED ONES 
Natural qualities.
 Enjoy What are.... Natural Qualities and Acquired Qualities ..? When we look at ourselves from outside we can only see the surface of what we have become ... We can't see o perhaps cannot even imagine the inner core (center) , which , like in the example of the coconut , is the only part that really can nourish us and give us energy ... The shell (in the case of the coconut) serves as a protection but we certainly can't eat it ... In our case , the core (center) consists of natural or inner qualities such as peace , love , power , truth , happiness and so on ... The shell is the ego which consists of features or personality characteristics we have acquired through the journey of our lives such as experiences , abilities , memories , learning , habits and beliefs – in short , all that we are referring to when we say : 'I am so-and-so , from such-and-such family or organization or city'... While we are limited to these acquired characteristics , our true qualities remain inaccessible ... Through deep reflection and meditation we can break the shell and activate our inner qualities from which our values or principles are born ... To make an appointment with the self is to increase self-esteem. Thought to Ponder: To make an appointment with someone means to spend quality time with that person. When I make an appointment with myself too, I need to make use of it fully. So, from time to time during the day, I need to go within and see the specialties that I have. I need to get back to work and interactions with the consciousness of these specialties, which will color positively all that I do. Point to Practice: Today I will learn from the tortoise. Just as it withdraws within from time to time, so also let me take just a minute to introspect and see the specialties that I have. The more I spend such quality time with myself, I am able to increase my own state of self-respect. 

Happy Soul 

Who's a "Happy Soul" ? Definition provided by Buddhist Lamas... 1. A Happy Soul stops trying to change others, but instead focus on changing self. 2. A Happy Soul is one who accepts people for who they are. 3. A Happy Soul is one who understands that everyone is right in one's own perspective. 4. A Happy Soul is one who learns to "let go". 5. A "Happy Soul is one who is able to drop expectations from every relationship and gives for the sake of giving. 6. A Happy Soul is one who understands that whatever we do, we do it for our own peace. 7. A Happy Soul is one who stops proving to the world, how intelligent one is. 8. A Happy Soul is one who does not seek approval from others. 9. A Happy Soul is one who stops comparing with others. 10. A Happy Soul is one who is at peace with oneself. 11. A Happy Soul is one who is able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and is able to let go of one's wants. 12. A Happy Soul is one who stops attaching "happiness" to material things. Here's wishing all, a life of a Happy Soul...!! 

 Walking is the best exercise...

 Walking is the best exercise... ‘Walk Away’ from arguments that lead you to nowhere but anger... ‘Walk Away’ from people who deliberately put you down... ‘Walk Away’ from any thought that reduces your worth... ‘Walk Away’ from failures and fears that stifle your dreams... The more you ‘Walk Away’ from things that poison your soul... The happier your life would be... Give Yourself A Walk Towards Happiness...

Swami Vivekananda’s 7 Little Truths: 
(litmus tests in life) 
 1st Don’t let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life. Relationships work best when they are balanced… 
 2nd Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you doesn’t need it and the person who doesn’t like you won’t believe it… 
 3rd When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free. When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time. When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come…
 4th When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices. Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams. Choice is yours…  
5th We make them cry who care for us. We cry for those who never care for us. And we care for those who will never cry for us. This is the truth of life, it’s strange but true. Once you realize this, it’s never too late to change… 
 6th Don’t make promises when you are in joy. Don’t reply when you are sad. Don’t take decision when you are angry. Think twice, act once… 
 7th Time is like river. You can’t touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again “Someone Asked Swami Vivekananda: “What is poison?” He had given a great answer: “Everything excess in life, is poison”

Life

Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it. 

Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.

 Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.

knowledge for life

knowledge is for life
All knowledge is for life After all, knowledge is for life, for joy, for happiness, for elimination of pain and for problem-solving; So, whenever we have a bit of new information or a new theory, we should test it with this touch- stone. We should examine it from this point of view and see whether it will help build a better society and a better world order. We should see whether it will promote values and better relations and happiness or it will lead to a worse situation and will unleash forces of disintegration and immorality

Peaceful and Divine in their original nature

Peaceful and Divine in their original nature
 All the systems of Indian Philosophy declare with one voice that the soul, or all the souls, are peaceful and divine in their original nature and the present differences in their qualities, habits or nature, whether these are real or apparent, are due to the Samskãras acquired during their earthly life

The difference between ‘I’ and ‘My’

The difference between ‘I’ and ‘My’ 
Layman’s logic points to the existence of two different entities — the soul and the body or the Ãtman and the deha in another way also. Consciously or unconsciously, willingly or unwillingly, we generally maintain the distinction between ‘I’ and ‘my’ ; we use ‘I’ for the ‘self’ and ‘my’ for things which ‘I’, as a person, use or possess. For example, everyone says; ‘This is my house’ or ‘this is my car’; no one ever says ‘I am a car’ or ‘I am a house.’ Similarly, everyone says: ‘This is my face, these are my ears or my eyes" no one ever says : ‘I am the eyes, the ears or the face.’ So, when someone says: ‘This is my body’, his statement implies that the one who says this is different from the body. This, therefore, points to the distinction between the self and the body or Ãtman and deha. The pronoun ‘I’ stands for the person, the subject, the being whereas ‘my’ stands for what belongs to, relates to or is possessed, owned or used by that person. The former is conscient and metaphysical whereas the latter is material in case it is the body or something that is used by

Thoughts

Positive thoughts bring positive results.
Every thought, when left unchecked, comes into action. Just as a good seed in a good land brings quick and quality fruit, so also when we pay attention to our thoughts, they become a ground for the fortune that we want to create with our actions. Continuous positive thoughts create a ground for positive actions and so positive results.
Today pay attention to your thoughts. Dont think anything that will harm, but only those thoughts that construct. Today create a positive thought like "I am happy" or "I have everything that I want" or "God is my companion" and sustain this thought throughout the day, remembering it at least 10 times a day.